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Sorry, but I have to disagree Jasmine. I think you are right that people may be predisposed to PE, but I know from experience that porn trains you to get off in a way that is much different than intimacy with a real woman.

This is one of the (many) fundamental problems with porn. If a person starts to prefer it to the real thing, and then expects to still have a good working level of intimacy with a living partner, I think that is impossible. I think it's one or the other, but never both.

When a guy starts to favor P over the real thing for too long, I see one of two things happening.

1) They have difficulty achieving climax with a real woman no matter what the situation is.

2) They might climax much faster and encourage PE.

The reason for the first, and I have read up for this, is because a lot of guys who MB to porn are actually pretty rough with themselves and get used to how that feels. Then when they are intimate with a partner it doesn't feel anything like what they have conditioned themselves to enjoy wile using porn. Conditioned being the important term, I believe that any behavior with time and effort can be "unlearned."

The second is the category I think most guys, and myself fall into. We look at porn for a quick pleasure and don't want to get caught, we don't want you to walk in while we're looking at porn, so we start to MB as quickly as possible. The goal is to get to the high of climax as quickly as possible so we don't get found out. So the body slowly gets conditioned to believe that climaxing quickly is ok and good and the point.

I truly believe these are conditioned responses that can be unlearned, but it isn't easy and it takes time and effort.

Thoughts?