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My husband is a porn addict. He will not admit to it, but has agreed to therapy (with my therapist) hoping that she will change my views on this. She told us both in front of each other that she thought he had an addiction and can only be there for support for me until he admits it and seeks help. He then agreed to start seeing her next Tuesday. I am just so scared that this won't help. See, I was sexually abused as a child by my bio mom and step dad and they would watch that crap while they did things to me. So it causes panic attacks and flashbacks. He STILL isn't willing to put it aside for me while I am trying to iron out my issues. His priorities are mixed up. I don't feel as if I'm worth it to him. I feel as if he would choose porn over me if given the ultimatum, but I won't do that to him , me , or our children. He told me this morning that "he regreted marrying me cause I was a nag". That tore me in two. When he saw what he did to me, he backpeddled and said he would understand if I hated him. I feel as if he's pushing me away, and replacing me with porn. How can I be supportive to him, with the history that I have? How can I let him know that I disapprove, but still love him? How can I convince him that I will never leave him because of his addiction? I need some help with this. Please, anyone?