My first night here, I got great advice from
AnxiouslyEngaged: Quote:
1. Take a good look at your relationship to P and make a list of all the reasons you want to get it out of your life
2. Start a journal on this forum, and post in it daily
3. Be completely open with your fiance - let her know about your involvement in this forum, and encourage her to come here as well, if she thinks it would be helpful
4. Get through today without looking at P. That's always your primary goal, to get to the end of the day without giving in to whatever temptation might come your way. It's not forever, it's today. And tomorrow, it will be the same.
5. Allow hope back into your life. Life gets to be so beautiful so fast when P starts to become a thing of the past. You'll notice that you feel ten times better in a matter of days.
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