[FoolishMind]

Prior to myself acknowledging my PA, my wife had caught me out one time, and she purchased and installed Cybersitter on my home laptop. This put a complete stop to me looking at anything on the home PC.

So what did I do, I used my work Laptop! Since the beginning of this year, my when i joined this site, My wife updated Cybersitter on the home and My work laptop.

There have been times ive had the little voices in my head, and ive wanted to search for something, but I do not even attempt it! The reason I dont even bother is because:

a) It will show on the logs that my wife will get
b) It will be blocked anyway

I think of it kind of like a thief being put off from stealing a car or breaking into a house.

When you see a form of security, some flashing light, or a security guard blocking an entrance, It stops you, and make you think, IS IT WORTH IT?

The answer is always...NO.

(just to clarify I am not a criminal)

The actual software is really simple and easy to use. My wife only knows the login (Obviously), and sometimes some sites that are actually are ok are blocked aswell, So i just ask her to check it out, and if shes happy with it, she adds it to the allow URL list.

And thats it.

Cybersitter has different levels of lockdown, I am on a pretty high lockdown, sort of like a Maximum security prision. This means it will also remove any untoward words that i would type etc. Hence i can only type 'P' not the full word, as it would be removed when i post.

Now to some thats just plain crazy! It annoyed me at first, but actually I now quite like it.

For the minimal cost of about $25 It has prevented me from slipping up. by me not slipping up, has saved my marriage. How much do you value your relationship?

I really do highly recommend Cybersitter, who also have good tech support if needed.
It just acts as that last BIG BRICK WALL, stopping you from completely falling and crashing.

Any questions, feel free to ask. If any partners want more info aswell specifically from a female, feel free to PM my wife Inshi.