[dave42]

Hi Everyone:

I've been "okay" with being gay since I was about 18 and I'm now 42. I am, however, NOT okay with my addiction to p. I'm in a committed monogamous relationship with a great guy, and I don't want to mess it up.

So, I'd like to hear from other gay men, gay men who are completely okay with being gay. I really would prefer not to hear from men who see being gay as a problem. If that is an issue you are dealing with, then I sincerely wish you well, but I'm not in a place where I can be very useful. I would really like to talk to guys who can relate to my specific problems. I have found many of the messages here to be very useful, by the way.

Oh, and if any of you know of sites similar to throughtheflame.org that are gay-oriented, I'd really like to hear about it. I've looked, but I can't find such a site.

Thanks for your support, everyone! I'm at something like Day 35, and it's mainly because of your supportive messages.

All the best, Dave42