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My sitiuation seems so far gone until I can't phathom that my husband admitting his addictions to me (again). Two years ago when I made the discovery, he admitted to being addicted to porn but has since retracted that.

We live under the same roof still but he is not at all where you are. Thank you for the hint to stay calm and talk with him and not to him , showing anger. He is VERY angry and so am I, but I have failed at being calm in the face of his anger. I will be calm and understanding. I will talk with him.

I will do this as I negotiate the terms of the separation and divorce with him.

If I can't remain married to him and live together as a family then I want to be like your girlfriend, to do my best at putting him behind me because that's what he wants. Thanks again.