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08-06-2008, 08:16 PM
I feel that the only time abstinence is needed is if the PA is not only a pa but an SA...or a compulsive MB. It is a personal choice though, and to be honest his choice. I just recommend supporting him anyway you are able to without compromising yourself in the process. Do not feel like you have to push yourself to do things you do not want to do...trust me that takes a toll in the long run. I agree with everyone's advise above and wish you the best of luck. Welcome.
peace and love
crys |