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08-05-2008, 06:57 PM
I've tried to show him the site, but he doesn't want to look at it. He denies he has a problem. I believe first HE needs to admit HE has an addiction. I can say whatever I want, but me telling him he has a problem is like talking to a wall. He listens to everything I say when I try to explain how much pain i feel, I did email him the other day about the warning signs of porn addiction that pertain to our relationship minus the computer filters:
Warning signs that your partner is addicted to porn:
1. You are always the one to initiate sex. Pornography distorts a man's sex drive, often leading him away from normal sex. Use your intuition. If something seems abnormal or different about your partner's sexual performance, then it is reasonable to be suspicious. In my experience, I noticed, at times, an enormous gap in our sex life, where it seemed that I was always the initiator, and sex was much less frequent than usual. However, sex drive is frustratingly variable for everyone, so again, use your intuition.
2. Erectile dysfunction is not uncommon among pornography addicts. Even pornography addicts that are relatively young may experience these difficulties. Pornography trains men to reach sexual climax differently than normal sex, and after a while, they become desensitized to normal stimulation.
3. Frequently deleted browsing or internet history. There is being safe with sensitive information... and then there is being addicted to pornography. If, every so often, you notice he has cleared his history, ask yourself why. Many people clear their private data to protect sensitive information, but only so often. Frequent cleared history, or software that clears data, is a major red flag.
He has not responded to my email (actually he's never responded to my emails ,I've sent him 3) And he simply just doesnt want to talk about it. I talk about it to him, he just listens and at the end always always says"I don't know" (Meaning I don't know what you want me to do to help you? ) I guess that's what it means, I've never got anything else out of him.
Also I can't figure out how to make a journal on this website? |