"Love is in the aaiiirrr, Everywhere I look around...."
Cant tell you how big my smile is right now. ITS HUUUGE
You both doing brilliantly. Your are sorting each your own issues out for yourself. You are both educating yourselves about each others individual journeys and what each has to deal with. And yet supporting each other so well. Whatever milestone you choose, I would seriously encourage you to go and treat yourselves. Even if it a just a nice cosy meal together. But do something, Mark the occasion that you relationship WILL be better than it has even been before.
Standing ovation from me
Have a great weekend
FM